i dislike people who are very very very very self-oriented.

My father always taught me a lesson weekly, especially during the weekend when we chat late into the night. One of it i want to share:
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There is 3 good friends in the group, A, B & C etcs.
A is quite well off, most of the time A will initiate to foot the bill for B & C when they took their meals together outside, also times when they went drinking. B loves giving treats though he isnt holding a very high-paying job, he is a man of integrity. Hence B also offered to pay whenever he could, if not he'll try go on dutch. C is a good friend of A & B. C loves gatherings with A & B alot, but usually he only foot for his own bill. C is much more better off than B but he never initiate to foot the bills except for the very once or twice, he foot the ones with the lowest amount. Despite the fact that C is not somebody very NICE, A & B still love C alot as a friend. Time pass and the 3 friends grew old together. During their old days, C is the most unluckiest. C often fell sick and contract illnesses. C spent large amount of his fortune at the hospital.


Not evolving around the money factor. In life, sometimes, "you eat people", you also have to "let people eat you". (Take advantage of people, also must offer benefits to others) It isnt appropriate to enjoy at the expense of the others everytime. There should be times when you think you want to commit some good deeds or earn some happiness at own expense. Lest, will still pay the remaining amount back to the society when you grow old, or the next lifetime. Ever heard of this line "making contribution to the society". Having doubts on who are the society who will receive your help? Dont even bother? NO. I supposed people are aware that all of us can affect someothers in an awesome way. You can drop a gold coin (in any case, $1). Somebody picked it and bought sweets for his colleagues who are frowning over the work. With the sweets, they felt happier because somebody still even bother to care for them. When they go home, they treat their family members better. Then their family members will ....... By making one person's day happier today, you can never guess that you could have make 247232330949239 person happier by tomorrow.

Too sleepy, to be continued or edited.
von.